tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post7544303466128730775..comments2024-01-14T21:08:51.005-07:00Comments on oh whimsical me: Feeling DefeatedAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07104017362184011158noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-24258794923747410102014-04-18T21:23:56.337-06:002014-04-18T21:23:56.337-06:00That is a good point. Ring back and find out why y...That is a good point. Ring back and find out why you didn't get the job. You can then learn from this and see where there are gaps.Stephanienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-43355031794199822072014-04-18T10:40:05.073-06:002014-04-18T10:40:05.073-06:00I know exactly how you feel. It sucks. I actually ...I know exactly how you feel. It sucks. I actually have started my own business, but at the same time I'm applying to jobs all the time because I need the money, and flat-hunting in hopes I can make my move to London where I will hopefully be able to work as a photographer and grow my freelance income even more, and it's exhausting. And then I get anons telling me I'm lazy and unemployment is my fault and "there are always jobs somewhere." Yes, and a hundred people more qualified than I am lined out the door. Such bullshit. I especially hate it when older people throw that at you and accuse you of "blaming the job market" for being lazy and entitled. I. Will. Not keep going on about this. Man, seriously, GOOD LUCK. You can do it. Keep petting Pippin.Lix Hewetthttp://blog.lixhewett.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-16055465504745095502014-04-18T08:02:42.387-06:002014-04-18T08:02:42.387-06:00I sincerely hope you are able to find a job- it is...I sincerely hope you are able to find a job- it is such a hard time to find one, and it sounds like you are doing all you can ( something that seems super scary to me, but which seems to help, especially if they wanted the application to be online, is to call back after a week or so to see where things are with the job. It gives you a chance to have personal contact with someone and shows them you are interested...) <br /><br /><br />And you know, even if it is something you can only chip away a little at a time, I think starting an etsy and/or design business is great! Good luck with that too!Kristian Olsonhttp://www.withoutastyle.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-23456976648977746942014-04-18T07:29:25.034-06:002014-04-18T07:29:25.034-06:00You are not alone in this one, friend (I mean, loo...You are not alone in this one, friend (I mean, look at all these amazing comments!) I remember feeling that way so often before deciding to go back to school. Applying to jobs is a huge expense of time and your emotions are all over the place, from feeling like you're certainly qualified (then hearing nothing) to feeling depression because you don't feel qualified for the open positions. Looking for work is huge work. <br /><br /><br />For me, going back to my part-time retail job has been a really positive change in my life. It's a local boutique with awesome coworkers. My job is fun! Even though it's not a career, it's a way to put money in my pocket and usually brightens my day. It might not be ideal, but I bet you'd be a great fit at a local craft supply store (and, I bet they're hiring in anticipation for Mother's Day, which is big in the boutique/craft/gift retail industry.) A part-time position might also give you enough flexibility to pursue your creative passions and dreams. <br /><br /><br />Good luck, dear! Remember to go easy on yourself, treat yourself with kindness, and always remember that your worth is not defined by your employment.Kara | Design Delighthttp://design-delight.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-47700986287647163282014-04-18T07:14:43.662-06:002014-04-18T07:14:43.662-06:00Oh dear, I know how you feel! In 2009 I graduated ...Oh dear, I know how you feel! In 2009 I graduated from college and started looking for a job (like an office job, receptionist, something in the field of English) and I could not find anything. I must have applied to over 100 jobs in my city. We have three colleges here, and I applied like crazy for library assistant positions and help desk personal. I couldn't find anything. At the time I was working part time at Barns and Nobles and also part time at a breakfast fast food area. I had believed for so long that once I graduated getting a job with my degree would be easy! I didn't really have high standards either, I just wanted a job that paid a little more then min wage that didn't involve food. Maybe a cubical? Maybe a phone?<br /><br />After searching and searching I came to understand that it just wasn't going to happen. Everywhere I went I was one of hundreds applying, many who had been working in their field for much longer then I. My fresh-out-of-college paper meant nothing. <br /><br />So I got a job making cheeseburgers. It paid a little more then min wage, but that's because it was third shift. The plus is that it was in the same town as my then-boyfriend! But it was not anywhere near what I thought I would be doing after college. <br /><br />So that is when I started Silver Moon Creations. Because I wanted something of my own and I realized I needed to make it myself.<br /><br />This really hit home to me when my best friend graduated from the same college I did with a 3.9gpa (mine was 3.2) and she also could not find a job other then working at Bed Bath and Beyond. She is currently getting her masters now.<br /><br />The job market is so hard and now a days companies want to cut cost and get the cheapest work ever. I've seen a steady decline in any creative jobs. I think that is why a lot of creative types run their own business. I know you are perfectly capable of having any job you want. You are driven and amazing and very very talented! <br /><br />I wish you luck. I hope you are able to just relax and perhaps sell a few things here and there while waiting and working towards your goals, rather it be outside or inside your home!Carolynnhttp://kitty-ears.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-5673315671802353102014-04-18T00:47:22.982-06:002014-04-18T00:47:22.982-06:00I kinda know how you feel, it took me 2 years to f...I kinda know how you feel, it took me 2 years to find a part-time job when I was in college. It's definitely not easy to just go out and get a job like people seem to think it is. <br /><br /><br />When I feel a bit burnt out or defeated I find reading a good book (usually one I've read and loved before) helps me unwind a little. :) <br /><br />I hope you hear some good news back from some of your applications soon.RosieBaillienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-67963600688372374652014-04-17T22:47:17.843-06:002014-04-17T22:47:17.843-06:00I know how you're feeling but please don't...I know how you're feeling but please don't give up! Remember: the darkest hour is just before the dawn - it always helps me to think about it. When I just moved here and was looking for a job, I went through the same frustration: it's small town, with very limited jobs available, too many people who need jobs, tons of tailored resumes and applications that I never get to hear back from. I know how it is. But I also know that you shouldn't give up if you know what you want, you'll get it! GOOD LUCK!!!Chestnut Mochahttp://chestnutmocha.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-79517500630497502792014-04-17T21:23:40.618-06:002014-04-17T21:23:40.618-06:00Scary stuff. I'm about to go job hunting mysel...Scary stuff. I'm about to go job hunting myself, and I know just from applying to part time jobs in high school how hard it can be to get one!<br /><br /><br />I wish you the best of luck, and my tips on beating the blues are to take a drive, listen to some jams, and consider seeing a therapist (helped me tons).<br /><br /><br />RachelRachel Sullivannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462637714695296666.post-61141968028679052012014-04-17T19:23:23.534-06:002014-04-17T19:23:23.534-06:00Oh Emorie, my heart does go out to you. Looking f...Oh Emorie, my heart does go out to you. Looking for work can be the most soul wrenching thing in the world, but don't give up, don't allow it to want you to give up.<br /><br />My suggestions? Take any job.. being employed in any shape, makes you more employable. Do volunteer work. This will keep you more connected to the outside world and give you a sense of being. The career you want may need to take a step back for awhile, don't let go of it though. <br /><br />If you can afford to, put your energy into your etsy shop. Change the scenery for awhile. I am a wee bit older than you, but was going through a struggle recently and found that this guy really helped me http://www.raptitude.com/. He puts things into perspective for me.<br /><br /><br /><br />Don't try to be too many things at once. <br /><br /><br />I wish you all the best sweetie..Stephanie Lanzettihttp://www.in-my-backyard.net/noreply@blogger.com